Friday, October 10, 2025

Life on "Back Street"

 Longbourne Street used to be named Walnut Street, but those who lived there called it Back Street.  The annual Back Street Christmas Party at my Grandma Clayton's house was a reminder.  The gift exchange usually included a gag gift or two to celebrate with humor the relationships that we enjoyed.  Aunt Joy and Uncle Jerry Hoffman lived across the yard from us.

Small town life in Liberty included 50-60 people and maybe as many dogs and cats and Sylvia Lodge's sheep.  Henry Bussey had a handful of cows, others had a few chickens and we used to have a few pigs, til we didn't due to butchering them in my Grandma Jonas' kitchen.  I don't know if it started in the barn behind our house, but there seemed to be a lot of hog parts and blood in her kitchen.  Shortly after the butchering, our small barn was torn down.  I was 3 or 4 years old, so the memories are probably half made up.

Mike, my brother has two years more memories than I do.  We both had years of perfect attendance pins from the Liberty church (United Brethern when we were baptized as babies, then Evangelical United Brethern and later we were United Methodist after the merger in the sixties.)  Vacation Bible School each summer was a special treat.  

There used to be a Lutheran Church and a school before Mike and I were born.

We played on back street by riding bikes, playing hide and seek with the neighbor kids, Donna and Peggy, Freddie Noll (sp) and Sylvia Lodge and Bobby Whitaker.  We tore down our garage and our dad put up a basketball hoop where we could "shoot some hoops."  We listened to music and a couple radio shows like The Lone Ranger and Hopalong Cassidy.  Quiet fun.

More later

Monday, August 4, 2025

How Did We Play in Liberty?

 Playing was essential for life as a child in Liberty.  Who, when, what, why, where did we play?

Toys in the crib were first.  A rattle.  A teething ring.  A blanket!  A teddy bear.

They were simple back then.  Nothing fancy.  Realistic.  Reasonable cost.

Woolworths sold them.  Any 5 and ten cents store.  McCrory's in Dayton?

Those were the days!

What were your first toys as an infant?

Flying Helicopters


The Path Through Liberty

"Safe and Secure from all Alarm"

That's one aspect of life in Liberty.  That's how I felt as a child and adolescent.  That's what I sang at Liberty Church when we belted out the chorus of Leaning on the Everlasting Arms.  We basses and the tenors sang "Leaning on Jesus, Leaning on Jesus" while the  sopranos and altos sang "Leaning, Leaning" then together sang "Safe and secure from all alarm".  I still love that song.  And that's what we did-  leaned on the everlasting arms.

As a child, they were safe and warm and protecting arms.  As an adolescent, they were allowing while still very protecting arms.  As an adult, they are welcoming and calming arms.
That's how God is.
I've been blessed.

Sunday, June 20, 2021

Father's Day Reflections: Art (Scud) Jonas, 1923 - 2001

My dad died in mid-December, 2001, at age 78.  I remember a particular moment at his Masonic ceremony when the speaker approached my brother, Mike, and I saying, "You who are now fatherless..."  A new feeling came to me, openness to heaven or the hereafter, best describes it.  A thought of "we are next" went through my mind, also (but Mike is older,so it's probably supposed to be him?).  A closeness to God of a new sort started at that moment.  Thank you for focusing the moment, Masons.  I had a new freedom to see Dad so close to God that I knew how safe we all will be.  Dad was also free to be a larger meaning and memory for so many.  He was one of a kind.

At his 65th birthday party, I asked my Grandma what the day of his birth was like, in a house on Oak Street in Dayton, Ohio.  She replied,  "It was the worst day of my life." The doctor had a shocked, depressed look on his face as he did the home delivery (common in 1923) and immediately took the baby from the room without letting my grandma see him.  "Where is my baby?  What's wrong with my baby?", she asked. " There are problems with the baby and he's probably not going to live long, so it's best that you don't see him," was the reply.  Her mother and grandmother sat with her while the baby in the next room was ignored so he could die of multiple congenital anomalies of face, eyes and left upper extremity.  Since he lived til 2001, I guess you know that he made it.  What a heart ripping experience it was, though, for my grandma, until she got her baby and faced the uncertainty of raising an unusual child in a usual world.

He had crossed eyes, a facial droop, a stump where his left hand was supposed to be and a residual, but useless, dangling remnant of the beginnings of his left thumb.  He had eye surgery and they removed the thumb remnant.  He was left with no lateral gaze, resulting in lots of horizontal head movements, and the facial droop.  He opted throughout his life to reject getting a prosthetic left hand.  I remember, as a child, holding onto his stump while we walked to church.  It worked fine.

His parents decided to move to the country where he would be safe and have room to play.  They thought he was going to be "retarded", but were pleasantly surprised.  His deformities didn't escape the medical myth mill in the neighborhood of his birth.  Young pregnant women in that small area of Dayton were advised to avoid certain behaviors, such as twiddling their thumbs (per my grandma), lest their baby turn out like "Baby Arthur".  He most likely was affected by a first trimester intrauterine virus, not aberrant maternal habits.

He played and laughed and taught the adults how to function with a hand missing.  In school, he played sports, including basketball and baseball.  My aunt noted that, if his gym shoe came to be untied, the visiting fans would stare in amazement at him while he quickly retied the strings, enhancing their appreciation of someone with a disability.  He had buddies and played pranks with them.  When World War II came around, all his buddies signed up to serve in the military.  Dad tried to sign up for both Army and Navy (that's all America had at the time) but was rejected.  He felt disappointed and missed his friends.  He went to college for a semester at Miami of Ohio, but felt out of place to the extent that he withdrew.

He got a job working for Monarch Marking Systems, Inc. doing janitorial and "odd job" work.  He played on their softball and basketball teams.  As they noticed his skills, he got promoted.  He worked loyally for "The Monarch" for 43 years, retiring as their Safety Director.

As a father, he showed intense loyalty.  He attended everything we ever did in church, school, sports,  moving (me to Hershey, PA and Mike from FL to Denver to FL to OH or something like that).  He watched TV nightly with us.  He had a great, contagious laugh, which he used liberally watching "The Three Stooges", "Our Gang", "I Love Lucy", Bob Hope, Milton Berle, Red Skelton, and Jackie Gleason on our black and white TV.  He played church softball and bowled on two town teams.  He later took up golf, which he played until he couldn't walk without a cane.

We had a family vacation yearly at a lake front cottage owned by "The Monarch", swimming, reading comic books, playing cards and occasionally fishing.  He taught us to fish (with worms on a hook) and to row a boat at the lake. We fought over who had to sit in the left rear seat on those trips, since Dad had a habit of spitting out the driver's window.  When you heard him snort a couple times, you'd best be rolling up that left rear window as fast as possible (No, we didn't have air conditioning).

He assisted with the boy scouts and explorer scouts at times, going on the longer camp outs with us.  He had an annual fishing trip with his dad and father-in law (one of whom lived next door to us and the other lived across the street- grandchildren were a bit spoiled) and a neighbor or Uncle Jerry.  They went to Canada and caught tons of fish, which I never ate at that time.  They played Euchre on the trips and at neighborhood gatherings.

Dad was a volunteer fire fighter, as were all the men in Liberty, the town of 75-100 people (counting dogs and cats) where we lived.  Every few years the local fireworks plant would have an explosion and the men would go to protect the other buildings while the explosions continued.  (this was before women became firefighters).  The wives would drink coffee together and wait.  Us kids would stand in the back yard and marvel at the free fireworks show.

Dad was a proud father of our accomplishments and forgiving of our shortcomings, sometimes after an angry comment.  He did have some anger, but he had a big heart for helping others. He helped several people in town get jobs at "The Monarch".  He became a great grandfather for Mike's 3 sons and my 3 sons, who turned out to be the only ones left with the last name Jonas.  He helped to raise his great grandson, who lived across the street in Liberty for a while.  The boy who was almost discarded carried through the family name.

Dad became the Lay Leader in Liberty United Methodist Church until he was too ill to do it.  A large group from the family, the church, the Monarch, Jefferson HS, Liberty, the Masons and folks he had helped or befriended attended his viewing or funeral.  He was my Dad.  I actually feel very Fatherful instead of Fatherless.  The memories and meanings are forever.

Sunday, September 6, 2020

Vietnam Service 50 years later: Getting Oriented "in Country"

 


In Vietnam, we couldn't use US Dollars so we were issued Military Payment Certificates (MPC) instead.  We used these for our purchases while "In Country".  We also had a ration card for drinkable alcohol products.  I think it allowed each individual something like 3 cases of beer, 3 to 6 bottles of wine or liquor monthly.  I never drank close to that much.  The ration card, however, didn't apply to individual drink purchases at the officer's club (A plywood hut in Phu Bai for my first 4 months in Vietnam).  Somehow, I didn't save a ration card, but someone reading this will have one to post in the comments.

I had to get a haircut shortly after arrival and noted that all the barbers were Vietnamese locals.  We paid them with the MPC pictured above.  We never had military barbers.  When I was a cadet at West Point, we had local civilians to cut our hair, too.  The Vietnamese barbers used a straight razor to trip the side and back edges.  They also jerked the neck around in a quick surprise maneuver that left me with a painful neck for a week after my first haircut.  I guess that was supposed to loosen something, but it backfired for me.  I didn't let anyone else jerk my neck around when I got haircuts after that.

Somehow, I was assigned to a hooch which had a pilot roommate for 2 or 3 weeks until he went home.  He helped with my orientation to how everything worked.  We had a hooch-maid who did our laundry, cleaned off our boots (we were issued jungle boots in Vietnam)  and cleaned the hooch.  We paid a few dollars weekly in MPC for the service.  



The latrine was across the street, about 5 seats as I recall.  This was important (multiple seats) since the weekly Chloroquine pill that we all took to prevent malaria, caused loose bowels or diarrhea in many of us.  Under each seat was half of a 55 gallon barrel, the contents of which was burned daily, generating black smoke that billowed toward the heavens.  We pilots always knew not to fly through the black smoke, by the way.  The enlisted personnel who burned the human waste daily did not have an enviable job.  I assume that it was rotated, like KP duty, so someone didn't have it as their main job in the war.

There was a urine tube just out the back door of our hooch for faster access and a bunker between our hooch and the next one, in case we needed protection from mortars or rockets.  I was only in the Phu Bai bunker once, which I'll mention in a later post.

We flew support missions six days a week, except during the monsoon season.  Night life consisted of writing letters; reading Stars and Stripes, the military newspaper, letters from home and books; and going to "the (oficers) Club".  At the Club,  we played cards- mostly poker (Bruce Q, Clarkson M, Curt S. -some others whom I don't remember -and I played bridge) and drank a bit.

Monday, August 10, 2020

Vietnam 50 Years Later Post 3. August 1970

 I followed orders and flew to Cam Ranh Bay, reporting to the 18th Engineer Brigade, which sent me to their aviation unit.  I was instructed to meet with someone the next day to get my specific assignment.  In the mean time, they had a cookout and a volleyball game which was a pleasant way to meet some other pilots who flew for the Engineers.  

The next morning, I got the word from a captain in their aviation unit that my assigned unit would be the 45th Engineer Group headquarters, which had an aviation section.  The captain pointed on the map of Vietnam to the location of the Group in Phu Bai (which I was later told meant the "land of the dead ").  "What are those red pins on the map?" I asked.  "Oh, that's where the 45th Engineer Group Aviation Section had been taking fire from the enemy."  I already noticed that there were no such pins in the area around Cam Ranh Bay.  My assignment might be more "engaging" in I Corps where I was headed.  The area of operations of the 45th Engineer Group was I Corps which was the northernmost area of military operations in South Vietnam, extending north to the Demilitarized Zone - DMZ (there was a II, III, and a IV Corps).  

 I Corps (South Vietnam) - Wikipedia

I flew from Cam Ranh Bay to Phu Bai that day and reported to Headquarters of the 45th Engineer Group.  Personnel assigned me to the Aviation section and a hooch - Vietnam War slang for a thatched hut or improvised living space- my plywood home for the next several months.


Our Aviation section shortly after my arrival in Phu Bai: Cpt Sherk, Cpt Holland, Cpt. Jonas, Lt Marsh, CW2 Leo Childress, ?, SSG Cooper (L to R standing) Sitting Sp4 L. Kawai, ?, Sp4 Washington, ?, ?, Sp4 M. Metro. 2nd row includes Sgt. Jones, Sp4 Steele, May, (Sorry I don't remember everyont)


Some facts about the 45th Engineer Group:

45th Engineer Group (Construction)

Arrived Vietnam: 8 June 1966
Departed Vietnam: 30 January 1972
Previous Station: Fort Bragg
Authorized Strength
HHC
1966 - 98
1968 - 111
1970 - 111

The 45th Engineer Group was under the 18th Engineer Brigade throughout its service in Vietnam, planning a coordinating the activities of its assigned and attached units. These consisted of construction or other units engaged in the field construction, rehabilitation, or maintenance of facilities in support of the U.S. Army or Air Force operations. The group arrived at Cam Rahn Bay and moved to Dong Ba Thin on 15 July 1966. It relocated to Tuy Hoa on 15 October 1966, moving to Qui Nhon that December. It moved north to the Phu Bai area in February 1968, where it assumed general construction support missions for the I Corps Tactical Zone. The group then remained in the Da Nang area until departing Vietnam. The following engineer battalions served the group one time or another;

14th Engineer Battalion       39th Engineer Battalion
19th Engineer Battalion       84th Engineer Battalion
20th Engineer Battalion      299th Engineer Battalion
27th Engineer Battalion      577th Engineer Battalion
35th Engineer Battalion      589th Engineer Battalion
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